Safety in BDSM means discussing ideas, activities and LIMITS before the session. Not suddenly introducing a new fetish (clowns, urination) for the sake of shock value and cackling “hek ek-ek-ek-ek!” just because the sub is disgusted and appalled. Charging money for a sexual experience the buyer did not ask for is almost as bad as asking “how much do you have in your wallet?”
Safety in BDSM means discussing ideas, activities and LIMITS before the session. Not suddenly introducing a new fetish (clowns, urination) for the sake of shock value and cackling “hek ek-ek-ek-ek!” just because the sub is disgusted and appalled. Charging money for a sexual experience the buyer did not ask for is almost as bad as asking “how much do you have in your wallet?”